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17
Jul

Balanced Flame

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flamegrill

The Center Flame

One of my favorite pass times is cooking on my grill.  I’m not especially good at it, but I’ll keep trying.  My grill of several years has been slowly needing replacement parts.  From heart dividers to o-rings, I’ve put a bit of money into maintaining the system.  It’s ok, none of the parts or pieces to date have been that expensive.

However, I noticed today that in the center of the grill there is now a very high, very intense flame.  That centralized flame forces me to move the steaks and hamburgers around the flame and forces me to keep them away from the center.

Upon further evaluation, I found that one of the channels that host the gas, has rusted through in the middle.  Therefore the intense flame is a result of a broken system.  A high concentration of gas has drawn from the rest of the system making it imbalanced and not heating the grill equally.

Systematic Approach to Heating

As I pondered this it showed an obvious allegory or what I think is problematic system of evangelism in the post-modern world.  See, in order to properly cook the meat I have to have a constant flame at a moderate temperature.  If I were to leave the meat too far from the flame it will never cook.  Sure it’ll be exposed to the heat, but not sufficiently enough to thoroughly cook the steak and get it to a point that it’s tasteful and useful.  Transversely, if I were to put the steak directly on the intense flame, the steak only burns on the outside, leaving the inside uncooked, distasteful, scorched , a waste of the heating system’s efforts and a wasted opportunity.

Failing Flame

Often times when Christians try to share their heart to an Outsider, their flame is too high.  The intensity is a result of something broken in our heating mechanism.  What’s broken varies for Believers.  I feel that often it’s a lack of a pre-established relationship, a desire to “win-over” someone through our own efforts instead of letting Christ work or a lack of patience to keep the heat low and constant to ensure that we influence a well done approach.

Saving people is up to Christ.  He provides the opportunities and the desire in the Outsider to heed His call.  Often times having a balance in our heating system – with all parts working well -do I create the opportunity and environment to witness.  If my flame is too high, such as being so religious that I simply burn people without gradually warming them from the inside, I become irrelevant.  My religious element maybe high and it’s taking away from the other heating elements, such as personal relationship, humor, intellect, etc…  I don’t wish to be misunderstood here.  My Faith is foremost.  It’s what propels me to live as I live, I want people to see me as differently.  But I don’t want the “religious” effects (being seen as self righteous, legalistic or hypocritical) to overshadow a balanced life.

There are a lot of Christians who overwhelm Outsiders with scriptures, judgmental attitudes and a desire to dictate their actions.  They sometimes lack the lifestyle that compels Outsiders to ask what’s different.  We loose relevance in other peoples lives when we’re too on-fire and we tend to burn them.

I pray that I am a constant balanced Christian that doesn’t burn those around me in order to be a small part of the systematic approach of the gospel that creates a useful and tasteful member of the faith.

“Col. 4:6 – Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.”

My Superbowl Expectations

On Sunday night, I like many Americans, tuned in to the 2010 Superbowl.  With anticipation I watched the commercial spots to see how offensive they would be this year.  I wasn’t let down, I was pretty offended after the first 90 second, back to back underwear commercials.

I watched with special interest for the controversial Tim Tebow Focus on the Family ad spot. 

See, I went into the evening knowing that most of the ads would be sleazy GoDaddy-ish marketing ploys.  I knew that most would portray men as morons (which they did) and women as somewhat more intellectual, but still ever-present sources of sin.

The commercials were designed to be just a tad controversial, because as any good marketer will tell you – controversy and offense will typically yield the highest emotional response.  Emotional responses drive memory recall.  Offensiveness yields conversations that outlast the 30 second ad spot.

Tim Tebow – Ad Spot

 

Iniquitous or Powerful?

Admittedly upon watching the Tim Tebow spot, we had to rewind it twice and play it again.  We had a few couples from church there as well and most said “Is that what 2.5 million will get you?  I hope that’s the start to a series…  What was the message?”

I had to think it though, but I though it was very clever – from a marketing standpoint. 

I think too many Christians wanted a “Yeah!  In your face!” kind of moment and didn’t get one.  What we got was far more effective.  The point of the commercial was seemingly not the 30 second spot but the larger message.   A message that was delivered weeks before the ad and will be discussed afterwards. 

Focus on the Family used this as an opportunity to say “Let’s celebrate Life” and “I can’t imagine not having the happiness that I enjoy because of my child.”  Those are powerful messages and are often lost by the sign carrying, name calling, seemingly angry Christians that are normally portrayed by the general media.  I think there is a place for showing the world and legislators that there is a strong stance against infant-murder.  But, for those who are not in the heat of battle – for those who are on the fence about this issue – they would most likely not be offended about this commercial. 

Trying to reach someone’s heart is most often not done through offense. 

I think anyone who was not on the extreme of this issue one way or the other would say “What was the Pro-Choice people so afraid of?  Is this it?”   It shows a special type of shallowness and fear of the truth to have such an exaggerated response to such a pure message.  I think that’s a brilliant way to get to get the real message across that life is precious. 

The Desire to Offend

Christians are far too eager to offend non-believers. It feeds our self righteousness, it gets a response, it makes us feel accomplished.  However, we fail to remember how we feel when the ACLU takes away our rights or attacks our way of believing.  Has anyone ever been converted away from God because non-Christian organizations offended us or attacked us?  No.

Why then do we feel the need to attack other people in the interest of changing their hearts?  Conversion are done by God and we are vessels.  Let’s not strive together to work against Christ in this process.  I think the simple message of “Life is Precious” is exactly what would have appeared in red letters on a Superbowl Sunday.

25
Jul

Starting Off Right

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Anyone who has read this blog knows that I’m not a traditionalist.  I’m excited to be a Christian and know there are times to be solemn, but it’s not the norm.  I’ve often wondered why weddings seem so similar to funerals.

Someone posted this video on Facebook and so far it’s had over 4.5 million views.  Why?  Because people love different approaches, energy and happiness are contagious.  I wish I had thought of this…or was able to dance.  Although it’s evident in this video, that the inability to dance was not lending itself to inhibition here. 

17
May

What This World Needs

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Casting Crowns sings a song called “What This World Needs”.  Here are the lyrics – I don’t think they need explanation:

What This World Needs

Casting Crowns

What this world needs
Is not another one hit wonder with an axe to grind,
Another two bit politician peddlin` lies,
Another three ring circus society.
What this world needs
Is not another sign wavin` super saint that’s better than you,
Another ear pleasin` candy man afraid of the truth,
Another prophet in an Armani suit.

What this world needs
Is a Savior who will rescue,
A Spirit who will lead,
A Father who will love them in their time of need.
A Savior who will rescue,
A Spirit who will lead,
A Father who will love,
That’s what this world needs.

What this world needs
Is for us to care more about the inside than the outside.
Have we become so blind that we can’t see?
God’s gotta change her heart before He changes her shirt.
What this world needs
Is for us to stop hiding behind our relevance.
Blendin` in so well that people can’t see the difference
And it’s the difference that sets the world free.
What this world needs
Is a Savior who will rescue,
A Spirit who will lead,
A Father who will love them in their time of need.
A Savior who will rescue,
A Spirit who will lead,
A Father who will love,
That’s what this world needs.

(Spoken)
People aren’t confused by the gospel,
They’re confused by us.
Jesus is the only way to God,
But we are not the only way to Jesus.
This world doesn’t need
My tie, my hoodie,
My denomination, or my translation of the Bible,
They just need Jesus.
We can be passionate about what we believe,
But we can’t strap ourselves to the gospels.
Because we’re slowing it down
Jesus is going to save the world,
But maybe the best thing we can do
Is just get out of the way.

What this world needs
Is a Savior who will rescue,
A Spirit who will lead,
A Father who will love them in their time of need.
A Savior who will rescue,
A Spirit who will lead,
A Father who will love,
That’s what this world needs.
Jesus is our Savior,
That’s what this world needs
Father’s arms around you,
That’s what this world needs
That’s what this world needs

12
Apr

The “Overflow” Show

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I found this site called the “Overflow Show”, which seems to be a great ministry option for podcasters.  Here’s how they describe themselves:

The best ideas from the 40 best books on evangelism in the world. The Overflow show is a free 5 minute audio podcast for christians which teach us how to naturally "overflow" into our non-Christian friends’ lives with the gospel. Each show is different and brings new and helpful ideas. Topics include: how to transition to talking about Jesus; intellectual answers to objections about our faith; and many more. From answering questions, to removing doubts, the Overflow Show seeks to give you confidence and connect you better with non-believers.

I’m looking forward to listing to this in the future!